Our
individual personality makes up the very essence of our totality as a human
being. We are judged on our personality through our character. So, it is either
we have a good or bad personality depending on how others perceive it.
What
contributes to a good and pleasing personality? How can we project our
personality in such a way that will attract people? It is a given fact that we
all have unique individual personalities. We can never be someone else we are
not, no matter how hard we try to imitate each other. But we can choose to have
a character that stands out from the rest or simply win admiration from people.
Having an admirable personality is not just about being physically attractive
or appealing. As initially mentioned, it is a complete package – physical,
emotional, mental, spiritual, and general well-being.
One
essential element in personality development is positive thinking. This
conditioning improves the mental aspect of our personality. Let us now see how
positive thinking can contribute towards better personality development.
Personality Development on Mental Well-Being
A
sound mental well-being is an important aspect of personality development.
There are many ways to achieve this and being optimistic is one among them.
Make an effort to shift negative thoughts to positive thinking. Let go of
negative self-talk as it only distresses the mind. Others may not have realized
it but they have made negative self-talk a habit. Thoughts are best expressed
either verbally or through actions. They become more realistic rather than just
keeping it in your mind.
You
can start by listing down the affirmative statements you can think of, and then
apply them in verbal context during conversations or even when praising
yourself. Doing this will gradually transition your paradigm into a more
positive approach and you will begin to see things on a brighter side all the
time. In the long run, it will become a mental habit.
Positive Attitude means Pleasing Personality
We
learned that positive thinking is also manifested through a positive attitude,
since our thinking, feelings, and actions are always a match. Our attitude
speaks so much of who we are either professionally or personally.
People
despise those who conduct in an undesirable manner. It follows that when you
have a bad attitude, you think, feel and act or even react negatively toward
people and situations. Then, the impression you create on people is someone
having a displeasing personality.
If
you wish to create a good impression of yourself toward others, you would
rather consider seeing things on a positive side. This will eliminate ill
thinking and unwanted attitude. You will learn to deal with others with
respect, having more consideration and sensitivity towards their feelings and opinions.
The Positive Character Traits in Personality Development
Positive
thinking enhances our personality through the positive character traits we get
out of it. These admirable traits help us grow in personal and professional
aspect of our life. By cultivating constant positive thinking habit, we develop
the following:
a. Enthusiasm
Positive
thinking accompanied with enthusiasm drives the passion to attain something you
want to achieve. Do not allow moments of lapses and dull instances wherein you
just sit blankly.
b. Optimism
Obviously,
with constructive and affirmative thoughts, you will be transformed into an
optimistic person. You will learn how to take more control of trying
situations, and will view every action and circumstance in a good way.
c. Adaptability
When
you have learned to see the positive and brighter side of things, you are bound
to become more flexible in dealing with all sorts of undertakings in life.
d. Self-Esteem
Well,
with a positive attitude that knows how to treat and respect people accordingly,
you will also have learned to respect yourself more in the process. Trust that
you are capable of radiating that admirable personality to others who may need
to realize their worth.
e. Confidence
Who
would not want to have a confident personality? Show that you can be entrusted
with any task. Be positive in manifesting this confidence, but do not be too
arrogant of yourself.
f. Self-Control
When
you have made positive thinking a habit in every little or big thing you do,
maintain consistency and self-control of your thinking and emotions. Always
keep a humble and kind heart.
